Liberals preach all the time about the “moral high road” and their unique ability to sympathize with those they determine to be underprivileged and held down by “the system”. They see certain groups of people as incapable of making positive change in their circumstances or for their community. It’s because of a perceived imbalance of resources and an obviously slanted judicial system that causes a sharp divide between the Haves and Have-Nots.Conservatives are blamed as the primary culprits in this cycle of modern-day oppression and segregation. We are considered primarily as white, bigoted, uneducated, rednecks who don’t care about anyone but ourselves, our guns and our God. I find these stereotypes to be entirely false, having no more ground in reality than a Saturday Night Live sketch. Conservatives statistically give more to charity than liberals, are more likely to teach their children strong values and discipline, and are probably more happy with life in general.
How could Conservatives be more happy in life? The answer lies in the distinction between two words which are misused on a regular basis by many of us (myself included). Liberalism sees only victims, while Conservatism sees potential in every individual despite their social or economic circumstances. It’s this difference which allows the distinction between sympathy and empathy to become more clear.
Sympathy is the feeling of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune. Pity is the key to liberal thinking. It’s what drives the emotional mechanism in people, which in turn becomes the excuse for disempowerment of individuals. Conversely, empathy is the ability to understand the feelings of another. Notice the key word is missing from this definition. Empathy allows the Conservative to recognize another’s circumstances, but does not shift the responsibility to correct those circumstances onto another person or the government.
Feeling empathy toward someone does not suggest that that person is incapable of creating a better life for themselves and their family. There are countless examples of people (including immigrants who came here with literally nothing more than the clothes they wore that day) who used the tools inherent to all people to achieve the “American Dream”. Feeling sympathetic toward someone adds that additional emotional component which leads to government coddling, setting precedent for the future, and creating more entitlement programs.
We can feel for another’s misfortunes, undesirable situations and circumstances, for it’s inhuman not to. Understanding is important and is what leads to charity and volunteerism. However, we cannot disempower those in crisis even for a moment. They have the tools necessary and after applying them may feel a boost of self-confidence, furthering their ambition and success.





